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The Fleeting Euphoria of Success | Debbie Millman | TED
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For the last 20 years,
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I've interviewed hundreds of people
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about their motivation to create,
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their ambition
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and what it feels like to be whole and at home in the world
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on my podcast, "Design Matters."
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In one episode several years ago,
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I interviewed a famous painter about a recent exhibition,
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a show that had taken years to create.
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Given the magnitude of the accomplishment,
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I asked her how long the feeling of pride lasted
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after opening night.
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She looked at me,
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she smiled sheepishly
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and stated,
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"About 11 minutes."
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(Laughter)
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I thought she was joking, but she wasn't.
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Since that interview,
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I've come to realize she's not the only one
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whose achievements feel ephemeral and fleeting.
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Not by a long shot.
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Over the past four years, in addition to my interviews,
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I've conducted my own version of a Proustian questionnaire
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for PRINT magazine.
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Hundreds of creative people have answered the same 10 questions
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about their life and their work.
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Given the response I had with the famous painter,
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I included this question:
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How long does the feeling of pride and joy
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at accomplishing something last for you?
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As I collected my responses to the questionnaire
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and reviewed all of my transcripts of my interviews and conversations,
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I saw how, up close, for so many people,
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the pride and joy of accomplishment dissipates
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almost as quickly as it manifests.
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I heard it in the words of a poet
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who shared that the high of publishing a book
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lasted until she sent in her final manuscript.
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I heard it in the voice of a designer
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who admitted he felt restless the very night of an awards ceremony.
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And I heard it in the plaintiff confession of a musician who told me,
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"The only time I feel at peace is when I'm in the studio.
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Not on stage, not after.
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Only while I'm making."
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Another confession.
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I felt this way my whole life.
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After publishing a book,
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after mounting an exhibition,
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after a TED Talk,
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after what should feel like I've reached the pinnacle,
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moments I've dreamed of for decades.
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The joy evaporates within days,
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sometimes hours,
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and once, terrifyingly, within minutes.
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And then for so many people, what happens next?
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The quest to create,
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to make something bigger, more ambitious
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or more challenging begins again.
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I found this all utterly confounding,
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and I became consumed with the question of why?
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Why does the feeling of creative achievement slip away
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almost as soon as we grasp it?
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Why are we in such a rush to want something more?
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Is it ego, ambition,
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addiction to attainment?
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We're living in a culture now obsessed with achievement,
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and we measure that success with metrics,
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likes views followers, awards trophies sales
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and we celebrate the hustle.
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We glorify the grind,
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and we equate visibility with value.
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Now after 20 years of interviewing more than 1,000 people,
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I've come to believe that something else is at play.
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When I look at the creative people I admire most,
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I see people answering a calling.
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A calling that says create, shape, build, imagine, express.
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Not necessarily to be seen,
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but to be.
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What if the actual reward is not accomplishment
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but the act of creating?
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Think about it.
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The finished products
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and trappings of creative accomplishment
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are often seen as the goal.
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And if we haven't yet reached mastery,
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we're told we have to fake it until we make it.
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Pretend.
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But I don't think people should have to fake anything.
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Instead, I'd rather make it until I make it.
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You see, I believe that the act of making is like oxygen.
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When the making stops, it becomes hard to breathe.
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Now I admit I still struggle with this.
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I crave recognition, I still measure myself by external markers of success,
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and I'm still racing towards multiple finish lines.
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But I'm learning, albeit slowly,
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that these moments will never, ever be enough.
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They can't be, because in the end,
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they represent a certain scarcity,
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while making is the actual abundance.
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Several years ago, I interviewed David Lee Roth,
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the swashbuckling former frontman of the rock group Van Halen.
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I first became a fan of the band in the mid-1980s,
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after the release of their five-time platinum album, "1984."
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The record sold over 12 million copies, produced four singles,
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peaked at number two on the Billboard charts,
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and was only held back from the number one position
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by Michael Jackson's "Thriller."
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I interviewed David Lee in 2019
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and asked him what it felt like
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to reach the peak of the tallest mountain
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in his storied career.
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He paused and was reflective as he recalled the experience.
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And what he said next really surprised me.
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He told me you have to be really careful when you reach that peak,
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as it's always cold,
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you’re often alone,
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and there's only one direction to go.
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And it occurred to me right then and there
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that I didn't want to peak until the day before I die.
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(Laughter)
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And I wanted to take my time, slowly, walking up that mountain,
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making new things all along the way.
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So the next time you finish anything,
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a book, a poem, a song, a painting,
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try not to despair.
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That fleeting feeling of accomplishment isn't a flaw.
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It's part of the creative condition.
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Instead, heed the calling.
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Continue to make things, and maybe, just maybe,
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take your time becoming the creative being that you want to be.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
