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4 Relationship Traps That Lead to Burnout | Eric Quintane | TED
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I'm a professor of organizational behavior,
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and as my students very well know,
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it means that I study people in organizations.
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Now I study them with a very specific perspective.
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I focus on their relationships.
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I focus on networks, the pattern of relationships
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people build with each other inside organizations.
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And when we do that,
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we have a different image of organizations
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that start to appear in front of our eyes.
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So let me give you an example.
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This is an organization I've studied.
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You see people represented by circles,
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and their colors represent departments that they belong to.
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Now when we apply this network perspective to this organization,
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we start to see another image of the organization that appears.
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We start to see some things that were not visible at first
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and they become obvious.
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For example, these departments are much more interconnected
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than what we thought before.
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Or this purple department all the way at the top,
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feels like it's almost completely disconnected from the organization.
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Now the network perspective gives us many more tools,
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mathematical, statistical tools to understand precisely
1:19
the position of individuals in organizations
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and how those positions, the network that surrounds them,
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actually affect how they think.
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And this has been related in the world of organizations
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to many important outcomes like their performance, their creativity,
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their ability to be promoted,
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or whether they're going to leave the organization.
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And over the last 30 years,
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we've accumulated a vast body of empirical evidence
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showing that these networks matter,
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and they matter across cultural contexts,
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they matter across industries, across types of organizations.
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And we've learned that there are two typical network structures
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that particularly matter.
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And I'll tell you a little bit more about them.
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Meet Kelly.
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Kelly is in what we call a cohesive network structure.
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That means Kelly has strong relationships with her colleagues,
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but also all of her colleagues know each other,
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they trust each other,
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they talk with each other frequently.
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And without knowing anything else about Kelly or her colleagues,
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we can actually know a few things about her.
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We know that she can rely on support from her coworkers.
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When there is a crisis, something goes wrong,
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she can count on them.
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And because people talk often,
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they exchange information about each other's work,
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they actually have a lot of recognition at work
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and validation at work.
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We also know that they talk frequently,
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that means communication spreads quickly and effectively,
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it means that Kelly is able to coordinate quickly.
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She's able to solve problems fast,
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and she is able to implement her ideas pretty quickly as well.
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Alex is in a very different type of network structure.
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Alex is in an open network structure,
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which means that her colleagues don't know each other.
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They don't talk to each other.
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They have little awareness of each other.
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What we’ve learned is that this means,
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well, they come from different social groups,
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different functions, different departments in the organizations,
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they might work in different countries.
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And that's important because what we've identified with this
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is that Alex is exposed to very different information,
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different perspectives,
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different ways to think about problems.
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What this gives Alex is a source of information,
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but also it gives her skills that are developed over time
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about how to think differently about problems,
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how to translate a solution,
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an idea, from one context to another.
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She has translation skills that have been developed.
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Alex also has control over that information,
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which gives her quite a lot of power.
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So with this network structure,
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we know that Alex tends to be recognized for creativity.
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She tends to be recognized
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because she brings different solutions to the table.
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She sees things from different perspectives,
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and she's able to combine them together.
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It's a very powerful position.
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Now as mentioned, we’ve learned a lot about those network structures.
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And there's a big body of work over the last three decades
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that has accumulated evidence, mine included,
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about all the positive benefits that we can get from belonging
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to some of those structures.
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But we have very little understanding of any negative outcomes,
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problems that can be associated with them.
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Now, it might [be] surprising, it's not a big leap.
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You know, positive, negative.
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But it took us, or it took me, years
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to realize we don't know those negative aspects.
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In fact, and it's interesting
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because there were a few seeds that were planted very early on,
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a long time ago, when I was doing my PhD.
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And I did my PhD in management,
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but I did my PhD at the same time as my wife,
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and my wife did her PhD in domestic violence.
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She was studying victims of domestic violence.
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And unlike me, I'm a quantitative researcher,
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that means I use large data sets.
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I look at statistics, mathematics.
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My wife actually talks to people.
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She hears, she listens to the stories.
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And when she was telling me about some of the stories
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of victims of domestic violence,
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what struck me
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is that some of those victims will stay in abusive relationships
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for years, decades, even.
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One of the main reasons was that the family and friends
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of the victims of domestic violence
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had strong views,
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in particular, views about what it means to be in a relationship,
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about what it means to be married.
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And they wouldn't let the victims of domestic violence
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escape from the relationship and break free.
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Now in the world of organizations, there are negative relationships.
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We can have a difficult coworker,
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we can have a bad boss and we can identify them,
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but we don't know or we did not know about the potential negative impacts
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of those network structures.
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About six years ago,
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there was a big rise in consciousness of burnout
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as the next epidemic in the workplace.
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In 2019, the World Health Organization recognized burnout
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as an occupational syndrome.
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It's characterized by exhaustion, by cynicism,
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and it's typically caused by excessive stress at work.
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There have been many surveys that have been conducted since then,
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and this one shows that it's a widespread phenomenon,
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with 49 percent of employees,
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in this survey done by McKinsey,
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reporting that they were experiencing some sort, some type of burnout.
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One interesting element is that they identify
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that a toxic work environment will typically cause this burnout.
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Now what is a typical work environment?
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How do you measure it, what does it actually mean?
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That was vague, that was a bit ambiguous.
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It's not very precise.
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And so that's where I thought that network analysis,
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with its ability to make visible things that are hidden,
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to characterize networks very precisely, could be helpful.
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So I started research projects.
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And research projects, for the last 5 to 6 years,
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we've been studying and working with seven organizations,
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different sizes, different industries,
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over 5,000 employees in total we've worked with
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and we've been doing interviews,
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surveys to capture their experience of burnout,
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but also collecting email traffic to understand their positions
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in social structures.
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And we've tried to associate that, using predictive models, with burnout.
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And we found that actually,
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those network structures can predict the experience of burnout
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with a fair amount of precisions, over 80 percent precisions.
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Now this is still a work in progress.
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Some papers have been published,
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but a lot of them have not, and I'm still working on them.
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But I wanted to highlight a few of the insights
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that we've already been able to identify.
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And these insights,
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I’m calling them now the four relational traps.
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So those four traps, they correspond to the two network structures
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that we discussed before.
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The cohesive network structure that Kelly is embedded in
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has the characteristics that people know each other.
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Kelly's coworkers know each other,
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they talk with each other, they trust each other,
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which means that over time,
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norms of behavior start to emerge.
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And those norms of behavior,
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they start to say what is appropriate,
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what is not appropriate to do or to think,
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and the type of topics that you can raise in the context of the group.
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And when those norms become too strong,
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they can actually feel very binding.
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And this is the example of domestic violence I was giving before.
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These norms can become so strong
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that when the interest of the person
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diverged substantially from the interests of the group,
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it becomes very difficult to break free and to escape from those norms.
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The second trap is called emotional contagion,
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or we call it emotional contagion,
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and it's based on the research projects I'm conducting right now
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with one of my former PhD students.
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And we're studying communications and spread of emotions at the university.
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And what we find is that when people communicate frequently with each other,
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like in Kelly's cohesive structure,
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well, they also share emotions.
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They share how they feel.
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And when they feel good, then everything's fine, no problem.
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But when they start complaining, they feel frustration,
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they start to have negative thoughts about the organizations,
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then the cohesive structure acts like an echo chamber.
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It amplifies those negative emotions, which generates stress.
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It generates a fair amount of exhaustion and burnout.
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So the open structure is very different.
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You don't have strong norms in an open structure.
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You don't have an echo chamber in an open structure,
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but it's still subject to a couple of those relational traps.
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The first one, we call it uncontrollable interdependencies.
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And it comes from a study we did with a former student in a hospital.
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In the hospital, we identified that nurses who were exposed,
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or who had to rely on very different people,
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in order to deliver their job, to deliver their care,
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will actually experience higher levels of burnout.
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That means when they need to coordinate between the doctors, the radiologists,
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the legal experts, the administrative people,
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they will depend on so many people to deliver the care to the patients,
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that they ended up having no control about the quality of their work,
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or when they could do their work.
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And this led them to experience inordinate amount of stress
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which led to burnout.
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The last trap, we call it excessive demands.
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And the idea is that here is not that they depend on other people,
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but that many people depend on Alex.
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And if there are many people who depend on Alex
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in these open structures,
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that means they come from different perspectives,
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different departments, they have different requirements.
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And this increases the workload on Alex so much that it can become excessive.
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And we have a paper we just published
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based on a research project where we demonstrate
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that individuals who are placed in these positions,
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where they are receiving those demands from disconnected individuals,
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disconnected coworkers,
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are significantly more likely to experience burnout.
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Now what you need to realize
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is that these traps are not easy to identify.
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You can see that you have a bad boss,
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you can see that you have difficult coworkers,
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but it's not easy to identify if you are part of those traps.
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You know, it can feel comfortable to be in Kelly's position,
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surrounded by close colleagues.
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You feel well in this group
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until at some point you start to feel that it's constraining,
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that it's a little bit too tight.
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When you are in Alex's position, you actually feel great.
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It's very exciting to be exposed
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to all those different perspectives, these different ideas.
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But at some point you might feel that you stretch too thin,
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you're pulled into different directions,
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and that's the moment where you might want to stop and think.
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So what can you do about it?
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Well, we have a simple recommendation,
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which would be a first step,
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is to do a regular relationship health check
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every six months, for example.
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And in that check, you ask yourself very simple questions.
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If you want to identify trap one,
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do you actually learn from your coworkers?
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Are there new ideas that you're getting from them?
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And importantly, can you discuss new ideas and perspective?
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Can you propose something new
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without fearing that you're going to be rejected or dismissed too quickly?
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For trap two,
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you want to ask yourself if people around you still energize you.
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If you feel that there is a vibe that you're excited to go to work
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and to meet your colleagues.
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Or, on the contrary, do you feel that you’re exhausted
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because there is so much gossip, so much frustration
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that's swirling around you?
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For trap three,
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the question is, are you still in control over your work?
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Or do you feel that your work depends on so many different people
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that you can't ensure the quality or the timeliness of your outcomes?
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And for trap four,
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do you feel that you're actually constantly pulled
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in different directions?
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Are you stretched too thin by all the demands and requests
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that come to your desk?
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OK, so now if you have identified those traps,
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the question is, what do you do about them?
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If you are in traps one or two,
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if you are like Kelly in that cohesive structure
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and you start to feel the pressure that's coming to you,
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what you need to do is diversify your network.
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You need to identify new coworkers that you could interact with.
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Simply having lunch or coffee once per month
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with a new coworker is enough.
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It gives you a breath of fresh air,
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different perspectives that you can rely on.
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You can also try to reduce the interactions
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with your very close group of colleagues.
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When you are in traps three or four, in Alex's position,
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you start to feel stretched too thin,
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well you need to refocus on your core group.
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You need to actually build support in your group.
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What this might mean is bringing those people together,
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creating opportunities that they meet each other,
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a lunch, an event where they can actually know each other
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and start to build those connections,
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because that's going to bypass you to some extent,
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but create synergies
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where you're not needed to satisfy their demands.
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So as a summary, networks are great.
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They are really powerful.
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They are really important.
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They have many strong benefits.
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But there’s also a negative side that you should be careful with.
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And if there are two things I want you to remember from this talk,
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it's, one,
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if you are in a position like Kelly, where you have a cohesive network
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and it's starting to close in, you need to break free.
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You need actually to identify new people, create new connections.
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If you are in Alex's position
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and you see that you have these disconnected contacts
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that start to pull you in different directions,
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bring them in, start to close,
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and create a more cohesive network.
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For me, that's not the end of the journey.
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I'm still as I was when I started my PhD,
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fascinated and excited by everything we can learn about those networks,
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and I hope I shared some of the excitement today with you.
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Thank you very much.
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(Applause)
