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Is Luck Random — or Can You Cultivate It? | Christian Busch | TED
Is Luck Random — or Can You Cultivate It? | Christian Busch | TED
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On January 7, 2025,
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our house, my wife's parents' house
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and most of our neighborhood burned down to the ground.
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On that day, I was about to submit a paper to a major management conference,
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and like a rookie,
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I had left it to the last hour and was stuck in the uploading queue.
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That's when the evacuation order came in
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for the LA wildfires in Pacific Palisades, where we lived.
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I found myself outside hosing down the house with one hand
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and holding the laptop with the other,
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desperately trying to get that document to upload.
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At that point, I thought that was my biggest problem.
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Turns out it wasn't.
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The document did upload.
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The hosing, however, did not work,
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and 24 hours later, our house was gone.
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I'll never forget the firefighting planes
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flying so low overhead as we evacuated.
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It felt like a really bad Hollywood movie.
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My wife was pumping breast milk
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as we were trying to get our newborn to safety
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and our toddler from preschool.
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That night in the hotel,
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as we tried to act as normal as possible towards the kids,
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my then-three-year-old daughter looked up and said,
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"I want to go home."
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You know, I've researched, taught
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and worked on the unexpected for over a decade,
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and I've seen a fair share of unexpected events myself.
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But this hit on a whole new level.
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In the days that followed, I tried to focus on the things
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that I could control.
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And surprisingly, there were micro-moments of joy,
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like unexpectedly bumping into old friends in the hotel that we evacuated to.
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And that experience was an unexpected
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and certainly not wished-for opportunity
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to practice the very serendipity mindset framework
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that I had been working on,
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and that can help us navigate those kinds of situations.
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More on that later.
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But first, let's talk about bad luck.
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It all felt like really bad luck.
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But when I reflected on it, I realized it was more than that.
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It was zemblanity.
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Zemblanity is when something unlucky, unwanted
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or undesired happens by design
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because it's already built in.
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It seems unexpected and like bad luck,
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but in hindsight it was to be expected and avoidable.
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In our case, the wildfires and the winds were the trigger,
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but the real misfortune was already built
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into the fragile system all around us.
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There was a lack of water in the water reservoirs and hydrants,
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a limited pre-deployment of fire trucks in the area
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despite the early warnings.
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Brush wasn’t cleared in the area, and a complete lack of coordination.
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It wasn't just one thing.
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In retrospect, we realized
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that it was a space of infinite negative possibilities
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where eventually misfortune was inevitable.
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The thing is, even when you try to do the right thing,
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in the system around you,
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zemblanity can still be baked in and you get caught up in it.
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What happened to us wasn't just bad luck.
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It was a pattern that I've seen everywhere,
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from wildfires to boardrooms to living rooms.
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The thing about zemblanity is it’s not just out there in big systems,
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like in the wildfire case.
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We see the same in companies with toxic corporate cultures,
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where it's just a matter of time that disaster strikes.
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And sometimes even in our own minds.
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Zemblanity is when we create our own bad luck.
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Take the traveler who leaves for the airport
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with exactly the time it's needed to get to the airport.
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Any small unexpected thing, like a minor traffic jam,
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and suddenly, the flight is missed.
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Or take the old man who is told to use his walking stick.
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He doesn't.
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One day he "unexpectedly" falls down the stairs.
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It might seem surprising in the moment, but it was to be expected.
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Zemblanity seems like bad luck, but it's already built in all along.
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Now before I go deeper into this,
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I want to ask you a question.
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In the room, who of you considers yourself to be a lucky person,
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please raise your hands.
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And at home, a mental hand-raise works too.
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OK, quite the lucky room, actually, well done.
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No worries, I won't ask the unlucky ones.
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We'll focus on the lucky ones for now.
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Those of you now who said
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you consider yourself to be a lucky person,
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who of you thinks they had some sort of role in it?
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Please put all modesty aside.
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Who thinks, hands up, had some sort of role in it?
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OK, still quite a few.
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Alright, so that's interesting, right,
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that on one hand, we know that luck is random,
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but on the other hand,
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already Louis Pasteur told us that it may favor the prepared mind.
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In order to visualize this, let’s look at the Luck Matrix.
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The Luck Matrix shows us the four different types of luck.
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Here, on the lower left, we see bad luck.
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Bad luck is something negative, unexpected, that happens to us.
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It happens to us, you can never blame anyone for bad luck
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and it creates a lot of societal inequality.
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Good luck, here on the lower right, is something positive.
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It happens to us, we didn't work for it.
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Just great if it happens.
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Zemblanity is the misfortune by design
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that we built into fragile systems or into the pattern and habits
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that kind of then ultimately lead us to disaster.
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And then the thing that has driven our research for the last decade
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is serendipity.
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Serendipity is the active luck
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that depends on how we engage with the unexpected.
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Blind luck happens to us,
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and active luck, serendipity, can be cultivated.
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Imagine you have erratic hand movements like I do.
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Then you spill a lot of coffee, right?
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So imagine you accidentally spill coffee over the person next to you.
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That person looks at you slightly annoyed,
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but you sense there might be something there.
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You don't know what, you just think, oh, that could be an interesting person.
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And now you have a couple of options, right?
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One is to just say, "I'm so sorry."
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You walk outside and you think, "Ah, what could have happened?"
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Another option is you start that conversation
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and that person becomes the love of your life
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or your cofounder or you name it.
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The point is, the eventual outcome, good or bad,
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depends on how we engage with the unexpected.
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And that's where serendipity emerges.
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Serendipity really is this unexpected good luck
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that results from unplanned moments
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in which our actions lead to positive outcomes.
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Let's look at an example.
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In 1968,
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Spencer Silver was trying to develop a stronger glue.
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Accidentally, he developed a weaker one.
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Seemed useless in the moment,
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until a couple of years later,
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his colleague Arthur Fry was using that weak glue
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to avoid having his bookmarks falling out of his church hymnal.
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That seemed quite useful.
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The Post-it note was born
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and became one of 3M's major products.
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Lots of examples out there of serendipity, right?
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From Velcro to microwave ovens
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to how people unexpectedly find love or their apartments.
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And a lot of times also
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when crises become the inflection point for something in one's own life.
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The point is that over the last decade we've studied serendipity,
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all these different stories of serendipity,
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and tried to understand, is there a pattern behind that.
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And it turns out there is.
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It's always the same process.
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There is an unexpected serendipity trigger, which is random, right?
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So the coffee spill or the weak glue.
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But then we have to imbue meaning in it.
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We have to connect the dots,
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we have to see what could be in that moment,
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and then we have to materialize it, right?
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It's not enough to just think, "This could be the love of my life."
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You've got to actually go on dates, right?
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And so the point is, once we look at it as a process, we can influence it.
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We can first learn how to see more serendipity triggers
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to try to focus on what is the information hidden
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in this good- or bad-luck moment.
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You know, for example, asking in weekly meetings,
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what surprised you last week?
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Very simple question,
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but then people start to focus on,
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is there some information in this, kind of, unexpected event
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that has just been happening here?
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Second, we can learn how to "seed" more serendipity triggers.
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And I'm not suggesting you spill more coffee.
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There [are] other ways,
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one of which is, at an event like this today,
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to put some rich information points out there, right?
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When someone asks the dreaded “So what do you do?” question,
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saying something like,
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"Hey, I'm Christian Busch, I study serendipity,
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but what I'm really curious about is parenting,
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because our four-year-old just learned how to negotiate.”
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And so what I'm doing here is I'm giving you a couple
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of potential connection points where you could be like,
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"Oh my God, such a coincidence, our kid also -- X, Y, Z."
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The point is, instead of having a pitch that's unidimensional,
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it's giving multidimensionality and potential dots
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that other people can connect for us.
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Then third, we can learn how to better connect the dots.
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For example, asking ourselves in unexpected moments,
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"Can I still find some meaning in this?"
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And then last but not least,
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we can also learn how to act more on it
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because that's where we miss serendipity very often.
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Think back in your life to moments
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where you saw an unexpected opportunity in the moment,
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but you didn't act on it, right?
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So maybe it was the unexpected idea in a meeting
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that you didn't bring into the meeting.
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Or you were flirting with a person on the bus
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when you were still single, of course,
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but you were flirting with that person on the bus,
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and you didn't speak with them.
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And then you walked outside and think, "Ah, what could have happened had I?"
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And there's a lot of reasons that hold us back in those moments, right?
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But one of the major reasons is fear of rejection, right?
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So in my case, for example,
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my brain immediately goes to
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what's the worst thing that can happen if I do this?
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The sting of rejection.
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One thing I've realized, though, and our research shows, is that actually,
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once you start to realize that that is not the real worst case,
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that the real worst case is the regret of not having tried.
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That feeling of walking outside and thinking,
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"Ah, what could have happened?"
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And so what can be really useful
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is this idea of reframing away from “What’s the risk of doing this?”
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to "What's actually the risk of not doing it?"
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And then we realize, the risk of not doing it
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is a lot of times much higher than the risk of doing it.
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So it gives us a bias for action.
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Now why is this serendipity mindset,
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this capacity to turn the unexpected into positive outcomes
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so important?
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Well because the unexpected is everywhere,
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whether we see it or not, and whether we like it or not, right?
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The likelihood of one specific unexpected event happening is very low, right?
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It’s very unlikely that the lady here yells at me
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or the gentleman here throws a peach at me, right?
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That's very -- I hope that's unlikely.
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I mean, you never know, but it's very unlikely in itself.
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But when you add up all the possible unexpected things that could happen,
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all these infinite, unexpected things that could happen out there,
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it actually becomes quite likely that something unexpected happens.
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And that's quite scary to me as a German, right?
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We love planning, we love having a strategy and straight lines.
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And then life is a little bit more like a squiggle, right?
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Where unexpected events come from everywhere.
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And so we have to build a muscle for that.
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And that is true for good luck,
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but it's also true for bad luck, right?
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The same alertness to our surroundings,
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the ability to connect our dots
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that helps us nurture serendipity,
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can also help us guard against the impacts of zemblanity.
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And you know, of course, mindset is not a cure-all, right?
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Our research also shows that things like education, networks, safety nets
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play a huge role when it comes to opportunity spaces.
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But on the individual level, for what is at our disposal,
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mindset is one of the most effective tools we have
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to nurture serendipity
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and guard against zemblanity.
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It's not toxic positivity.
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It's not ignoring pain, it's not ignoring grief.
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It’s accepting it, it’s working with it,
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and then saying, "What can I still control now?
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What can I still focus on now?"
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And, you know, in our case,
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there was a lot of pain around losing our house, right?
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And that doesn't really go away that quickly.
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I still wake up in the morning and think, how can that happen.
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But alongside it, something unexpected happened.
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It sparked new research.
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It gave me a renewed sense of purpose, and it rallied the community around us.
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I am far closer now with my in-laws, with whom we spend much more time.
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And so out of the ashes, something new is beginning to grow.
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Viktor Frankl, who has been a great inspiration to me,
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once said that "everything can be taken from a [hu]man but one thing:
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the last of the human freedoms --
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to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances,
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to choose one's own way."
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And I believe that's very true.
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We can't pick the fires, the storms, the crises,
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but we can choose how we meet them.
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And that choice is where serendipity begins
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as the unexpected starting point
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for a new chapter and potentially a whole new book.
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My hope is that we start building a world
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that is designing more for serendipity
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and guards against zemblanity.
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And the next time something unexpected happens to you,
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may serendipity be with you.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
