A bride asked her friend not to wear makeup to her wedding, and she had a good reason.

The bride asked her friend Devin to be a bridesmaid and gave her a gift basket with a dress code. She wanted everything to be coordinated.

The bride asked the bridesmaids to wear green dresses, silver heels, and light makeup. But things did not go as planned.

Devin usually wears goth style makeup, which did not fit the wedding aesthetic. The bride loves Devin's style, but not for her wedding.

Devin asked if she could wear her makeup to the wedding.

The bride said Devin could attend as a guest if she wanted to wear her usual makeup. But Devin was not happy with this.

Devin said she did not want to go to the wedding if she could not be herself.

The bride said she was not trying to change Devin, just wanted everyone to match for one day.

Devin said the bride cared more about photos than people's comfort. The situation got worse.

The bride and Devin stopped talking, and Devin felt unwelcome at the wedding.

The bride said Devin was still invited as a guest and could dress how she liked, just not as a bridesmaid.

The situation started a debate, with some people saying the bride was controlling.

Others said it was the bride's wedding and she could choose the dress code.

The bride said she followed a dress code at Devin's wedding and wore a specific dress and makeup.

The bride was unsure if she was wrong or if the disagreement had gone too far.

One user said it was not hard to wear what the bride requested for one day.

Another user said goth makeup was like artistic makeup and not typical.

A third user said Devin could wear a simpler version of her usual makeup.