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Amia and her friend Zelba have been inseparable for nearly a year.
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They share secrets, play games, and rule over imaginary kingdoms.
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Amia loves to talk, and Zelba is a great listener.
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Amia sometimes has bad ideas, and Zelba goes along with them anyway.
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Amia is very real, and Zelba... is not.
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Some parents worry about their child having playmates they can't see or hear,
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but imaginary companions are a normal part of psychological development
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for many kids.
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In fact, they even provide a special kind of support real friends can’t.
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But to understand this,
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we first need to explore what leads certain kids
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to create these fictional figures.
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Most often, their inventors are simply looking for someone to play with.
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Imaginary friends are typically created by children roughly 3 to 4 years old
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who lack siblings of a similar age.
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These kids tend to be socially outgoing—
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they like company, so they invent more of it.
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And while almost all kids enjoy playing pretend,
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children with invisible companions are especially fond of make-believe.
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One study even found these kids were better storytellers,
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suggesting that imagining friends
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might help with linguistic and cognitive development.
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Outside a love of fantasy and socializing,
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experts haven't found any meaningful differences in personality, intelligence,
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or shyness between kids who do and do not have imaginary friends.
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However, the invisible characters themselves couldn't be more different.
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They can be animals, real or fictional.
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Humans of all ages, shapes, and sizes,
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with features straight out of a fairy tale.
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Some come alone; others have a gaggle of imaginary friends and family.
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They can even be what researchers call personified objects—
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stuffed animals or toys brought to life by the imagination.
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And these manifestations vary from place to place.
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A 2004 study found roughly 67% of US kids under 8
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had invisible companions,
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while in Japan personified objects were much more common.
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These fictional figures don't just look different,
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they also fill a variety of roles.
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Many are playmates and confidants,
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but others are scapegoats, errand buddies, or babies in need of care.
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This wide range is why researchers typically call them
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invisible or imaginary “companions,” since they’re not always friends.
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In fact, researchers have even reported children
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who fight with their imaginary companion or are actively afraid of them.
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These situations can concern parents.
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But not only are they totally normal,
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they highlight the special power of imaginary companions:
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each of these characters is designed to fulfill their creator’s needs or wants.
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By creating a scary invisible companion,
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a child might be experimenting with feeling fear and how to conquer it.
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Negotiating imaginary disagreements lets kids practice dealing with conflict
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without real-world consequences,
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and resolving these arguments can help them explore empathy and caregiving.
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In these ways and more,
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invisible companions give developing children the agency to explore emotions
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and social interactions on their terms.
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And since research consistently shows children know these characters
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are imaginary,
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the kids are always in control— even when it doesn’t look like it.
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Some invisible companions stick around through their creator’s
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teenage and adult years.
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But generally, as kids start making friends in school around age 5 or 6,
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they talk about their imaginary companions less and less often.
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That said, the time they spent with these fictional figures
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has lifelong benefits.
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Research suggests pretend play strengthens a child's theory of mind.
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This is our ability to understand, imagine, and predict
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other people’s mental states—
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a skill that can help kids develop empathy and build relationships.
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And while we might stop speaking to our invisible companions,
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we never stop talking to ourselves.
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When you rehearse a difficult conversation in the shower
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or talk through your problems to a pet,
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you’re using the same skills you learned from your imaginary companions—
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talking through your inner monologue to problem solve and regulate your mood.
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So, the next time you see a kid chattering to thin air,
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know that you're watching the beginning of a lifelong conversation.
