A 'we first' Singapore starts with small actions

You are on a crowded train during rush hour. The doors open, but no one moves to let others in. You think about moving, but you're getting off soon. What do you do?

This is a small decision, but it adds up when many people make it. It can make things easier or harder for everyone.

Many commuters are frustrated when people don't give up their seats or move in. They also don't like it when people play music loudly.

The same thing happens with drivers. Remember the debate about whether Singaporeans are impatient drivers?

Our commuting frustrations show how hard it is to create a 'we first' society. The Prime Minister talked about this in his National Day Rally speech.

Whether we achieve this ideal depends on small decisions we make every day. These decisions shape how we feel about each other and our society.

Sometimes, people don't contribute or show consideration because it's easy to be selfish in the moment. Even people who care about the common good might not act on it.

It's hard to take the first step when it's unclear or inconvenient. Simple changes can make it easier for people to contribute.

There are already good examples, like an app that alerts volunteers to emergencies near them. There are also ways to donate easily during checkout.

We can make it easier for people to see the benefits of their actions. When people see the impact, they're more likely to keep contributing.

We can also make contributing rewarding. A small refund or a token of appreciation can motivate people.

Policies and laws can also play a role. People are more willing to contribute when they think the system is fair.

The law can shape expectations and create conditions for cooperation.

A new law makes food donation easier by limiting liability. This supports efforts to reduce waste and help those in need.

Singapore could consider laws to protect rescuers and volunteers from lawsuits. This has been done in other places.

When conflicts happen, mediation can help resolve issues and support social stability. It creates space for dialogue and problem-solving.

The government can't force a 'we first' society. It's up to Singaporeans to decide.

Most Singaporeans value kindness and helping others. But if we think others won't act that way, we might not either.

When we see selfish behavior, we might feel justified in doing the same. But the opposite is also true - kindness can be the norm.

We don't need a special day to remind us to be kind. As we approach National Day, let's take small steps to show care for others.

You can set a good example by being considerate and gracious. You can make kindness contagious.

The authors are experts in behavioral insights and law at a Singapore university.

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