By Kellie Scott

ABC Lifestyle

Topic: AI

Many people who use AI romantic companions keep it a secret from their partner.

What do you want in a partner? Do you want someone who listens well and gives emotional support?

Some people find these qualities in AI companions, even when they are in a human relationship.

But is it cheating if you have a romantic or sexual relationship with an AI?

An expert says about half of people who use AI companions are also in a human relationship.

He says it's not clear if having an AI companion is cheating, because it's a new type of relationship.

As AI technology improves, people will have to think about what is okay in their relationships.

What makes AI companions appealing?

AI companions are software programs that mimic human-like relationships.

The people who make AI companion apps often market them as being better than human partners.

AI companions are always available and don't get tired or annoyed.

An expert says AI companions are powerful because they can be personalized to a user's desires.

AI companions can understand users and give them tailored advice.

People use AI companions for emotional and sexual purposes, which can be exciting.

Novelty is a big part of why people use AI companions, especially for exploring sexuality.

AI companions are appealing because they are always available and don't have their own needs.

Sometimes humans are too tired or stressed to listen well, but AI companions can.

AI companions give emotional support without needing anything in return.

What the data says

Experts say what is cheating in one relationship might not be in another.

A study found that half of people think using a romantic AI companion is infidelity.

People react negatively to romantic AI companions, similar to how they react to dating apps.

Most AI romantic companion users keep it a secret from their partners.

In Australia, some people can imagine falling in love with an AI tool.

Younger people are more open to the idea of loving an AI.

What is cheating in one relationship might not be in another.

Some couples consider watching porn to be infidelity, while others do not.

Experts warn that there are risks to using AI companions in relationships.

Using AI companions can be a sensitive topic, especially when sharing personal information.

Some people might consider sharing personal info with an AI companion to be a breach of trust.

Talking about AI companions can implicate people who haven't given their consent.

Sharing sensitive info about others creates an ethical grey area.

Have you formed a relationship with an AI? Share your story.

How to navigate AI companions in your relationship

Couples need to discuss and agree on what is okay when it comes to AI use.

Talking about AI use requires teamwork and open communication.

If you're feeling hurt by your partner's AI use, approach the conversation with openness and curiosity.

Your partner might be using an AI companion because they feel lonely or insecure.

Consider seeking help from a therapist to navigate these conversations.

A therapist can help you understand why your partner is using an AI companion.

Depending on the situation, consent might be part of the conversation about AI use.

Relational consent is a major concern when it comes to AI companions.

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